Workshop Wednesday! – Pick-up-play Workshop, der ender i en pick up play aften!
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Pick-up-play er kort sagt en spontan leg mednogen man ikke er partner med. Ofte korte lege med få elementer – nok til at fåen fornemmelse af hvem hinanden er i en lege-situation, og om man har lyst tilat pick-up-play’e med vedkommende igen.
Formålet med aftenen er en sjov og legesyg aften,hvor man mere trygt kan eksperimentere med at komme udenfor sin comfortzoneog/eller prøve nye former for leg og/eller lege små lege med nogen man ikkeellers leger med. (Det er også helt okay at tage hjem efter workshop-deleneller at deltage uden at lege)
Som den udadvendte switch jeg er, har jeg en heldel erfaring med pick-up-play, som jeg meget gerne deler ud af til denneworkshop.
Jeg kommer bl.a. med mit bud på hvad der er god pick-up-play etikette før,under og efter leg, samt øvelser i at mærke efter, og sætte ord på lyster oggrænser.
Der vil også være øvelser i at rumme at sætte sig selv i en situation hvor mankan blive afvist, og i at afvise. Som en muskel er det noget man kan træne athave lettere ved.
For mig er pick-up-play sin helt egen genre. Detkan være svært at aflæse og kommunikere med en person, som man ikke er vant tilat lege med, og derfor kræver det ekstra omtanke at navigere.
Med denne indledende workshop håber jeg, at skabeet rum hvor vi efterfølgende trygt og rustet kan lege pick-up-play medhinanden, fordi vi således har samme udgangspunkt.
Jeg tillader mig at lukke dørene helt kl. 19:05så hvis du kommer senere end dette, kan du desværre ikke deltage, da det ervigtigt for mig at skabe et rum hvor folk kan nå at få en fornemmelse afhinanden og hvor alle har fået den samme introduktion.
Kl. 18:45 ankomst og omklædning
Kl. 19:05 DØRE LUKKER
Kl. 19:05 – 20:00 ca. Introduktion og workshop
Kl. 20:00 – og frem: Pick-up-play-party!
…Sidste SMil-Aarhus-medlem lukker ned.
Dresscode: SMil’s regulære dresscode, eller nogetdu føler dig kinky/ready-to-play i.
Tag gerne dine redskaber med.
Hvis nødvendigt oversætter jeg til engelsk undervejs.
Kun for SMil medlemmer (og fabrikken og SISC).
Jeg håber at se en masse nysgerrige deltagere.
Vid, at i mine workshops er intet obligatorisk, det er altid okay at trække siglidt hvis behov.
Mvh. SAMTYKKELUDER
Ps. Er der nogen spørgsmål til workshoppen, må man gerne skrive til mig påfetlife.
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Title: WorkshopWednesday! – Pick-up-play Workshop, that ends in a pick up play evening!
Pick up play isessentially a spontaneous session with someone you aren’t partnered with. Oftenshort sessions of play with few elements – just enough to get a sense of whoeach other is in a play situation, and whether or not you would want to pick upplay with them again.
The point of the eveningis to have a fun and playful evening, where you can more safely experiment withgoing outside your comfort zone and/or try new forms of play and/or play withsomeone you don’t usually play with. (It is also okay to go home after theworkshop part of the event, or to not play at all.)
As the outgoing switchthat I am, I have a fair share of experience with pick up play, which I wouldlove to share with you at this workshop.
Among other things, I will give you my take on what is good pick up playetiquette before, during and after play, as well as exercises on listening toand communicating your boundaries and desires.
There will also be exercises on daring to put yourself in a position to beturned down, and on turning others down. As a muscle it is something you canexercise and learn to take more softly.
For me, pickup play isits own genre. It can be hard to read and communicate with people you aren’tused to playing with and therefore it takes extra consideration to navigate.
With this openingworkshop I hope to create a space where we afterwards can play in a safer andmore confident manner, because we have the same starting point.
I am closing the doors at19:05 so if you are later than that, I’m sorry to say that you cannotparticipate since it’s important to me to create a space where people have achance to get a sense of one another and where everyone has had the sameintroduction.
Kl. 18:45 arival andchanging clothes
Kl. 19:05 DOORS CLOSE
Kl. 19:05 – 20:00 ca. Introduction and workshop
Kl. 20:00 – og frem: Pick-up-play-party!
…Last SMil-Aarhum member closes up.
Dresscode: SMil’s regulardresscode, or something that makes you feel kinky/ready-to-play in.
Please feel free to bringyour own play tools.
If necessary i will translate to english.
The event is only for SMil members (and the black factory and SISC)
I hope to see manycurious participants!
Know that in my workshops, nothing is obligatory, it is always okay to stepback if need be.
Sincerely, SAMTYKKELUDER
Ps.If there are any questions about the workshop, feel free to message me onfetlife.